Relationship Violence

Your partner:

• Exhibits extreme jealousy
• Blames all arguments or problems on you
• Is always angry at someone or something
• Tries to isolate you and control whom you see and where you go
• Forces you sexually in ways you are not comfortable
• Acts physically rough with you (push, shove, pull, yank, squeeze, restrain)
• Accuses you of flirting or cheating
• Is overly controlling (e.g., things always have to be done their way)
• Has extreme mood swings 
• Calls you negative names (dumb, stupid, fat, etc).

The Red Flag campaign is a public awareness campaign designed to address dating violence and promote the prevention of dating violence on college campuses.

If you are in an unhealthy relationship or experiencing abuse, creating a safety plan can help you avoid dangerous situations:

• Find someone you can trust to confide in.
• Create a safety word in the event of danger that only friends, family, and trusted individuals know.
• Keep a journal/photo document any abuse.
• Do not meet abuser alone.
• Avoid alcohol or drugs around the abuser.

For more resources around safety planning and unhealthy relationships, including a 24/7 Dating Violence Hotline, visit Loveisrespect.